There are many details and many miracles in
the story that follows, but, as the family
recalls them, here is an outline of the
events that began that Sunday evening.
During the day that Sunday, January 27,
2008, seventeen visitors came to see Tony.
He was in good spirits—trusting God—and glad
to be getting everything “taken care of.”
Our daughter Angie stayed with Tony that
evening while our son David and I attended
services at our newly formed fellowship,
Grace Place Church. I had been very
reluctant to leave, but Tony was doing fine
and encouraged me to do so. He said that as
long as Angie was there with him, he would
be fine until I returned. We were not
prepared for what happened next . . .
Tony’s cardiac arrest came at 6:30 p.m. and
the "Code Blue" alarm was sounded. Angie
immediately began to pray as the medical
team rushed in. She didn’t call me right
away for fear of how I would react to this
news. After about 15 minutes, Angie made a
1-minute phone call to me and simply asked
that I have all the congregation pray and
that I come to the hospital immediately. As
everyone began to pray, my son David and I
left for the hospital, not knowing what to
expect. Tony had seemed fine when I left
him. What could have happened in such a
short span of time?
As David frantically drove his car at high
speed to get us to the hospital, we were
stopped by a Michigan State Trooper. David
immediately called out to him: “Code Blue.
Code Blue. My Dad’s dying.” The trooper
asked which hospital he was in and
immediately escorted us to the hospital
entrance.
David and I ran as fast as we could to reach
Tony. Just inside the hospital, David
noticed that I was running out of breath, grabbed a wheelchair,
and told me to "get in the chair now."
He then proceeded to push the wheelchair,
frantically running down the hospital halls.
By the time we reached the hospital room,
the medical team had lost Tony’s vital signs
3 times. Angela was in the room praying
and, according to the doctor, each time she
began praying harder, they would get Tony’s
vital signs back again. All of his children
were with me around his bed—Laura, David and
Angela—talking to him and helping to hold
him still while they fought to keep him
alive. Finally, when they were able to
stabilize him, Tony was rushed immediately
to the Operating Room.
As I arrived in the Surgical Waiting Room, I
saw thirty-three wonderful friends and
relatives there waiting to pray with me,
including several area pastors. I told
someone, “Darn that Tony. His heart’s desire
was that all the churches and ministers
would come together, but he didn’t have to
do it this way!”
At this point, there was only one course of
action to keep Tony alive. The doctor came
in to report to us that the surgeon would
try and open up the completely blocked main
artery, but this would be an almost
impossible task, as the inside of the artery
looked like “cottage cheese.” The doctor
said the surgeon would try his best to
insert a stint. We began to pray. We knew
that God specializes in the “impossible”
things.
At that moment, David felt led to call
Dr. Charles Green in Louisiana, our lifelong
friend and respected pastor and leader.
David explained to Charles what was
happening with Tony and Charles immediately
said, "Let's pray." David put him on
speakerphone as he began to intercede and pray for
Tony’s life to be spared.
All who were there in the waiting room
praying--about 33 family members and
friends--listened and agreed together as Charles prayed a powerful prayer.
He asked that “the
surgeon would have no trouble at all
inserting the stint.” Well, it happened
exactly as Charles had prayed.
The doctor reported to us that the surgeon
successfully inserted two stints into
the 100% blocked main artery. I called
Charles to give him the good news and he
said something to me that would help me in
the forthcoming days. He said, “Praise
God. We have the beginnings of our
miracle.” Little did I know that the
“miracle” would be made real to us again and
again over the next three months.
One of the attending nurses who had helped
during Tony’s cardiac arrest earlier that
evening, came over to comfort me. She said,
“Listen to me! He will be just fine. If he
survived this, he can survive anything. It
wasn't his time to go. When God saw him, He
said, 'What are you doing here? You're too
early. Go back down.’” We owe so much to
God--He heard our prayers; but we also owe
many thanks to the doctors and nurses who
worked so hard to keep Tony alive.
Three days later—it was Miracle Morning!
Tony’s breathing tubes were taken out and he
was conscious again! Although extremely
weak, he was happy to be alive—talking and
joking—not realizing the trauma that he had
gone through. His family was there, telling
him that he was doing fine—when, all of a
sudden, he remembered his "near death
experience.” He said to our son, “David,
did I die?” (We hadn’t mentioned it to
him.) He began to vividly remember
“floating” above and seeing the people
working on him during the cardiac arrest.
David confirmed to Tony that, on Sunday, he
had indeed lost vital signs and had been
dying. Later, the doctor who was there said
to me in bewilderment, “You know . . . your
daughter . . . I don’t understand it . . .
but on that Sunday evening, every time I
would hear her praying louder, your husband
would blink his eyes and “come back” to us.
Praise God! What a wonderful impact Tony’s
experience has had—on everyone who has heard
about it and prayed for him around the
world. So many of the hospital staff came
into his room, prayed with him, asked about
his faith, and stood in awe at the miracle
they witnessed before their very eyes.
The following month was a period of
continued stabilizing of Tony’s heart and
body as he readied himself for the necessary
heart surgery.
Friday, February 29, 2008—Tony
entered the operating room again—this time
at 8 a.m.—for triple by-pass heart surgery.
So many family members and friends waited
and prayed for good news. But problems
seemed to prevail. The surgeons said Tony’s
heart was the worst they had seen in all
their 30 years of practice. The surgery was
complete, but Tony was on a heart/lung
machine—the heart muscle was in extremely
bad shape—not holding stitches—and the
bleeding would not stop. One of the
surgeons called the family together to ask
if they should continue to do everything
they could to save him—even to the point of
implanting an artificial heart. We
were stunned and speechless for a moment,
then answered, “Of course!”
Well, we prayed—and we again called our
friend Charles Green to give him the
less-than-favorable status. He was praying
continually with us and we treasured his
support.
Tony’s chest cavity was covered, but left
slightly open because of the bleeding. He
was given only a 50/50 chance to live. The
lung specialist dropped by and could not
give me a good report. She said, “We’ll
just have to take it hour by hour.”
Saturday, March 1, 2008—I
went in to Intensive Care and could not
believe my eyes. Tony’s face and entire
body was so swollen that I hardly recognized
him. There were so many machines in that
tiny room and a nurse was stationed there
with him 24 hours a day. At 1 p.m., one of
the surgeons informed us that he was taking
Tony back to the Operating Room. Back to
the Operating Room!! What more could they
do? He was dying! I felt that any more
trauma to his body would be the last. But
then I remembered what Charles Green had
said: “We have the beginnings of our
miracle.” Family and friends once again
joined together in prayer that the bleeding
would stop. And we waited . . .
Two and a half hours later, the doctor
emerged with a smile on his face. He sat
down beside me, smiled, and casually said,
“Well, I don’t see anymore bleeding. He
should be o.k.” Wow! More of our miracle
has come around. Just at that time, my
daughter Laura’s cell phone rang. The
ringer was an anthem of praise—It was “How
Great Is Our God”—the song that I’d been
singing every day since January 25.
I immediately called Charles Green
again—this time with a good report! He
said, “The Miracle Man is back. Tell that
man that I love him. When this is all over,
we’ll meet down here in Louisiana, go to a
restaurant together, and sit around and talk
about the goodness of God.”
Wednesday, March 5, 2008—The
surgeon said Tony’s heart is much less
inflamed. He closed his chest, took him off
some of the medicines, and began to wake him
up. On March 9, Tony began whispering to
us, asking a multitude of questions. He was
happy to be “all fixed now” and said to the
surgeon, “Dude, good job!”
Wednesday, March 12, 2008—Tony
awoke in good spirits, but had been
complaining of a “popping” in his chest.
When the surgeon came in to check, it was
just as he feared—the breastbone was not
mending back together. On Friday, he took
Tony back to surgery to stabilize the
breastbone, but could not close it all the
way. The breastbone was fragmented in three
places and there was an infection in his
chest. Plastic surgeons would be called in
to disconnect the pectoral muscles and
reposition them as “flaps” across Tony’s
chest.
Saturday, March 15, 2008—My
3-year-old granddaughter Emma was at her
home when, all of a sudden, she exclaimed,
“Grandaddy gonna get better; Granddaddy
gonna get up; Granddaddy gonna go home.” (I
think God’s been talking to her.)
Thursday, March 20, 2008—Plastic
surgery day. Tony awoke in great
spirits and ready to get this last surgery
over. The surgery began at 4 p.m. in the
afternoon and was completed after 8 p.m.
that evening All went well, and we rejoiced
that another part of our “miracle” has been
fulfilled. “How great is our God”—again and
again and again.
Friday, March 28, 2008—Tony
was released from the hospital and
transferred to a health care rehabilitation
facility. He was still unable to walk
without assistance and needed lots of
physical therapy.
Friday, April 4, 2008—During
the early hours of the morning, as David was
lying in bed at home, God spoke to his heart
that he should go right away to the rehab
facility because Tony needed help. He
drove there right away and found Tony
struggling to breathe. When he walked
into the room, Tony said, "I can't breathe;
help, I can't breathe." No one had
noticed Tony's distress, and David
immediately went to the nurse and told
her that Tony needed help now! Shortly
thereafter, Tony was
re-admitted to the hospital with difficulty
breathing and a very low oxygen level.
Tests showed that there was a fluid build-up
in his lungs and steps were taken to drain
the fluid. During the next few days,
treatments were performed on Tony’s lungs
and everything possible was done to
eliminate the excess fluid that had built up
in his body.
Thursday, April 10, 2008—Tony
returned to the health care facility feeling
better than ever. He continued to improve,
getting more mobile as each day passed by.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008—Tony was released to
come home!!
He was still very weak, but so happy—playing
with his dogs—sleeping in his own
bed—relaxing on the couch.
Each day since that time has truly been a
blessing—for Tony—for me—for our family. We
treasure each moment that God has given us
and live each day to the fullest—knowing
even more clearly what truly matters in
life. We simply have no words to adequately
thank family and friends for their prayers
and all they have meant to us during this
trying time. We will forever sing, “How
Great Is Our God.” He has truly been with
us each day as He continues to heal “The
Miracle Man.”